What would it be: preparing for the wedding with someone who is very upfront in admitting that he is not into wedding details at the very first place? Well chances are you may just mess up the pre-nuptial preparations if you push too much in getting him involved.
The main point is: do not expect too much from your ignorant groom-to-be. Recognize the fact that you cannot let him help you that much when it comes to planning out what your invitations would look like and so on. This does not mean that you count him out totally. To make the wedding special, give your man the value that he deserves, (yes, even if he is not that very cooperative because again, it is not his thing), include things that he loves.
So for example, he loves music from Bon Jovi and the like, why not use it as your first dance? Remember that the experience has to be a shared one, something that will include favorite things of yours and his. Another one is including his favorite drinks or food. He would definitely feel considered and that you have counted in his value as your partner. The whole point is: it does not mean that if he is not so into the planning and the details for the wedding does not mean that he does not care for you at all. It just so happened that this event is none of his main interests and knowledge.
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